SALOME ABERNAM JEBAMATHY

 

Eldest Daughter of BENJAMIN THANKARAJ the Youngest Son of SALOME the Second Daughter of REV.J.JOSHUA

 

 

 

Joshua      Salome      Benjamin Thankaraj

Salome Abernam Jebamathy

 

 

 

371

Salome Abernam Jebamathy

3651

Rooshitha Sarah Annabai

 

 

3652

Ashitha Salome Abernie

 

 

3653

Sushith Samuel Raj

 

 

3654

Vashitha Gunaselvi

 

 

3655

Jaishith Jebakumar

 

372

Edith Vasantha Selvi

3721

Jebaraj Sudeep Ross

 

 

3722

Rajkumar Sudesh Ross

 

373

John Sahayam Chelliah

3731

Sathia Rajeev

 

 

3732

Pearline Sundara Rekha

 

374

Selvin Devasahayam

3741

Satheesh S.Thangaraj

 

 

3742

Sasheetha S.Sundarabai

 

375

Vanitha Pooranam

3751

Shamina

 

376

Punitha

 

 

 

377

Saleema Satyaseeli

3771

Rajwanth Sathya

 

 

3772

Dhivya

 

John Manuel was born to Dr.G.M.Samuel and Mrs.Annammal Samuel, grand daughter of Rev.J.Joshua the second native Pastor of NAGERCOIL Home Church, as the fourth child in the family.  Dr. Samuel was a talented and eminent doctor who served the medical mission with distinction in a number of hospitals in South Travancore.  His selfless service to all sections of the society especially the weaker sections, was proverbial in places like Attingal.  He was a man of wide interests and few words and strong convictions.  Annammal Samuel was a fine example of the traditional Indian wife and mother whose whole life revolved around her husband and children and their well being.  Always in the background she provided the unseen strength and comfort to the family.  Young John Manuel inherited and cultivated the many good qualities of both parents which became the hall-mark of his own life and career.

He was the only son among five sisters and grew under their protective care in the rural setting.  He was affectionately known to his sisters as Thamby and Thamby Annan for whom he in turn had the greatest attachment and love.  In latter life he took the place of the father in the family and a relentless strength and support to his sisters and their families.  For the many nephews and nieces Thamby Mama was the greatest hero and example, and they admired and respected him all through life. 

 

John Manuel had his schooling in Attingal and NAGERCOIL and he did his Intermediate in St.John’s College, Palayamcottai.  He secured his Licentiate in Mechanical Engineering from the Polytechnic in Madras and started his professional career in the Kerala State Transport.  He became the first technical instructor of the Engineering Section of the Scott Christian High School, NAGERCOIL.  After retirement he spent time to develop a rubber plantation which became a rewarding initiative in later years.  He was the Correspondent for a term of the Gnanadason Polytechnic at NAGERCOIL when he improved its functioning by his knowledge and experience of engineering and student needs.

 

            He married his cousin Jebamathy, eldest daughter of Mr.J.B.Thankaraj, a dedicated and long term teacher in the Scott Christian High School, NAGERCOIL, and a deacon in the Home Church, NAGERCOIL, for a long time.  She was a most affectionate and understanding wife who effectively looked after his needs and comforts with devotion till his death on 5th February, 1997.  She is a graduate from the Scott Christian College, NAGERCOIL, and is now a Deacon in the Home Church, NAGERCOIL.  She is also a member of the Diocesan Council and a member of the Synod.  She had been the Correspondent of the Duthie Girls Higher Secondary School, NAGERCOIL for five years and the Correspondent of the Moderator Gnanadhason Polytechnic for a term and a member of the Diocesan Executive Council for twelve years.  She is very active in the Women’s Fellowship, YWCA, Home Missionary Society and many other religious institutions.  She had been the co-ordinator for the CSI day care centres, K.K.Diocese for more than ten years.  John Manuel on his part fully supported and facilitated her participation in the Home Church activities and in the Kanyakumari CSI Diocese work.  She could always count on his encouragement in all her interests and initiatives. 

 

            Tall and well built in physical stature John Manuel distinguished himself as a top volley ball player of South India.  In later life he took special interest to promote sports and games in Kanyakumari District something always close to his heart.  Yet another area in which he had an abiding interest was hunting.  On hunting trips to the hill area in Kanyakumari District he was accompanied by his nephews for whom Thamby mama was the greatest.  The stories that abound such trips and the adventurous spirit associated with them provide a never ending series of episodes often exaggerated to his friends and nephews.

 

            He was a staunch Christian to the core with a lasting concern for the Church and its missionary work.  Among many things for which he was responsible, he provided land, money and encouragement to build a Church in memory of his father in his rubber estate.  He was deeply involved in the setting up of the Rev.J.Joshua Family Association and a dedicated supporter in formulating and implementing its various activities including the support for missionary work.  He was the President of the Association at the time of his death.

 

            John Manuel was a man of inner quality often hidden behind an imposing exterior.  A man of few words but known for his deeds.  At heart a philanthropist and those who received his liberal help are many.  He had a subtle and bantering sense of humour and wit which endeared him to many.  As he drove his trekker round the roads of the town and the suburbs day in and day out, the frequency with which he raised his hand in salutation to the rich and poor on the road testified to his popularity with one and all.  In short he was a man of humility and integrity who did not spare himself till the very end to the people and causes which he held so dear.

 

            John Manuel and Jebamathy are blessed with three daughters - Rooshitha, Ashitha and Vashitha and two sons - Sushith and Jaishith.  Rooshitha is an Eye Specialist married to Dr.S.M.Bejan Singh and together they established the Bejan Singh Eye Hospital.  Ashitha is a lecturer in the Marthandam Christian College.  She is married to Dr.Brayan Chakravarthy who established the Daniel Hospital at Thickanamcode. Vashitha is a medical doctor married to Mr.S.M.Vijayanand an I.A.S. Officer in the Kerala Government.  The eldest son Sushith is an engineer who married Mishmala Kumari the daughter of Mr.P.Dharmaraj a leading advocate in NAGERCOIL.  Jaishith the youngest son is also a doctor and he married Pon Manju Usha daughter of Mr.& Mrs.Henry Paul Samuel of Palayamcottai;  All the children are well settled in life.

 

By - Prof.R.R.Daniel